THIS WILL 10X YOUR SUCCESS

Leaders, lawyers, established entrepreneurs: Here are some uncomfortable truths (I had to learn).

 

The most successful people, who are living their best life, on their A-game and feeling happy, confident and content, have internalised these truths:

 

1.    Failure is inevitable: Everyone fails at some point. How you respond to failure defines your character and future success. The more you fail, the quicker you succeed.

 

2. Few may support you: Despite your best efforts, not everyone will believe in you, and few may help you reach your goals. Learning to positively take action despite criticism, negativity, and scepticism is essential for your progress and well-being.

 

3. You can't please everyone. Learn to control what you can and know what you can't. You are not responsible for the version of you that exists in others' minds.

 

4. If you're not failing regularly, you're not stepping outside your comfort zone enough.

 

5. Failure is feedback. It doesn't reflect your worth; it is an opportunity to learn, change, grow, and course-correct on your way to success.

 

6. Do not let your emotions—fear of failure, criticism, rejection, or the unknown—hold you back. They are data, not directives, about how to act.

 

7. Perfection is an illusion. Don't chase it; chase excellence; otherwise, you'll never feel satisfied with anything you do—progress over perfection.

 

8. Toxic Relationships/Leaders/Businesses: Distance yourself from those who harm you, want you to fail, have no interest in your needs and don't support you. It's not to teach them a lesson but to show them that you have learned your lesson and value yourself – that's a brave move!

 

9. No one is coming to save you.

 

10. Use your most precious commodity - TIME - wisely; we're ALL running out of it.

 

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