I’m putting together a small case study group of lawyers and barristers where we’re going to focus on consistently performing at your best in mediations, high-stakes meetings, and difficult conversations — without the usual legal performance pressure, overthinking, or 2 a.m. replays. Would you like to join us? Email me at [email protected] and put “I’m In” in the subject line, and I’ll get you all the details!

Are You Negatively Compounding Daily?

Perfectionism is not the way to go if you want to improve 1% daily.

In fact, it will leave you with a 1% decline daily.

Your gr...

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When They Say "You Are A Great High Performing Leader" Or "You're Leading High Performing Teams...

Here's what they mean:

💡S/he doesn't carry all the responsibility and dictates ' do it this way' because I'm the leader - they...

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Even LinkedIn Says So....

LinkedIn says, "… Traditional leadership styles are increasingly being seen as outdated. People's collective intelligence and...

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Are You Increasing Your Risk When Resolving Conflict?

I arrive at the mediation about 20-30 minutes before it starts.

 

I've had a coffee.

 

I've set intentions about showing ...

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The Conflict Resolution Game: Exposed!


To win, you need to understand the 'rules.'

Most lawyers, barristers, leaders, and anyone in business, in conflict, strugg
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PEOPLE ARE MORE CAPTIVATED BY HACKS AND QUICK FIXES THAN EVER. BUT IS IT A GOOD THING?

I gave him (like I give you)  the Direct Louise tough love talks, but it wasn't until he changed his relationship with fear (...

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ARE YOU SABOTAGING YOUR NEXT LEVEL OF SUCCESS?

I've never stopped being puzzled when I coach people and consult with businesses, and they SAY they want more success...

 

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Are You Managing Your Emotions Or Are They Managing You?

I made a choice decades ago.

 

To learn how to manage my mindset and my emotions (EQ).

 

It wasn't cool at the time.

 

...
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Ever Wondered Why Things Go Off The Rails When Resolving Conflict?


If you do?

You'll know the importance of human skills in conflict resolution's success (and enjoyment).

That is what most p
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Game Changing...

This idea changed my meditations (and will change yours, too).

 

I've represented many clients and mediated many matters; o...

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