There’s a point in most mediations where the day changes.

You see it when offers slow, and people say:
 “Let’s see what they co...

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If you walk into mediation doing what you always do, you’re already behind.
Because when pressure hits, your habits take o
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I get asked this a lot:
“Aren’t your mediation strategies soft… or manipulative?”

Soft? No.
They’re habits you internalise, so t
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Barristers and lawyers, you’ve prepared your case for mediation.

But what about the people in the room?
The behaviour.
The postu...

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Video: If law was all that mattered at mediation. They would all settle.

This longer video explains why and what you need to do instead. Watch HERE

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Video: Law Rewards This. It also caps your value.

What you do and say is teaching people — whether you intend it or not.

The longer video goes deeper - Watch it HERE

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What's embarrassing isn't talking about this stuff.

What's embarrassing is that law still rewards perfectionism, overwork,
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Barristers and lawyers, if no one challenges you.
You may not be leading as well as you think.

Leadership in law isn't a title....

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Disagree with this if you want.👇

Barristers and lawyers, you're not unclear about what needs to change... now.
You're very clea...

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By mid-January, most barristers' and lawyers' plans for change in 2026 are already gone.

Either you started doing somethin
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